Insane World of Misha

67 Responses to “Deaf Social Network-Members’ stories Part 2”

1. Seek Geo, on May 17th, 2008 at 4:24 pm Said:

   I couldn’t believe reading from Anonymous #9 - it sounds like these so-called moderators really have clueless how to run a website. When a person wants to close an account, NO-NO questions need to be asked.

   Just simply close it, when a person wants to close an account, can give a survey asking what reasons so can improve for a quality of service but in that case, they kept asking why which is not acceptable.

   If they like to continue banning people then be it because it is going to hurt their website, no way they can success if they are being prick and ban anyone they wish. The whole point of being successful is to welcome everyone as long as they follow rules, simple as that.

   Again, like I stated earlier.. they really have clueless of how to run a website.

   Misha, you got that right regarding identity, nobody is required to share their identities for some safety reasons such as employment, etc. Can anyone please tell me if part of their policy where it states that you “MUST” state your identify or else you will be deleted or should I say banned?

   I find it funny quoted by MM “Go and tell your friends about DeafMeek and have them signed up with us. We need to expand a social network site for the deaf and hard of hearing.” But yet.. they banned too many people with no given reason, whole thing just do not make any sense.

   It’s sad knowing that these websites like that out there make things much more worse and stir up problems rather than trying to bring everyone closer and enjoy their free time getting others know better, getting along and learn each other better. That’s my dream for sure *sighs*

   Good blog and look forward to 3rd one!

   -SG

2. Bug, on May 17th, 2008 at 4:29 pm Said:

   The most dangerous untruths are truths moderately distorted. It wasn’t long before they had pieced together a strange and deadly game. - Bug

3. Jacey, on May 17th, 2008 at 4:43 pm Said:

   After reading here. I went though with roller coaster up and down for the last few months to try to figure this out from TD. Really there is nothing I can do there. I have asked the Admin at TD to delete my account which he have not do it yet… because I want out of their way, too much hassle to deal with…

4. Lane, on May 17th, 2008 at 4:53 pm Said:

   Seen your name plenty of times but never entered any of your blogs that I can remember. So I’m new here and impressed with it.

   So hi Misha.

   I had an account at SeekDeaf for like two months under this screenname BlueJeansGuy.

   I thought SD wasn’t that bad, just little different and simple…had this fun polls going.

   After hearing about bringing other people’s videos onto this site and taking link off their videos to make it appear theirs. I didn’t agree with what SD were doing. And MM or SD’s moderator’s responses to that situation weren’t impressive.

   So I decided to cut my membership/profile off from that site.

   I emailed its moderator or MM himself asking to cut my membership…they granted my wish…I appreciated it.

   Few days later I went back to that site to see if my profile was removed, instead I got this FORBIDDEN page. Oh well..

   After hearing about DeafMeek, I went to see that site, same result….FORBIDDEN page. Again oh well.

   I thought I was being nice.

   I remember seeing somewhere on SD its number of membership is around 600….I would bet that anyone banned from there still has their profiles kept there…..just so SD wants its body count of membership to look BIG. Which probably 70% of that membership count is inactive.

   Looking forward to your 3rd part.

5. Dude, on May 17th, 2008 at 5:02 pm Said:

   Ha ha about the comments. If someone refuse to delete their account, just ignore and stop using the account. That is it.

6. Tassielady, on May 17th, 2008 at 7:19 pm Said:

   As far as im concern with SD/DM they have no idea what they are doing to their website and it is sadly very poor of them to ban people (newbies) for no excuse at all.

   DM you are treating newbies like crap get your act together or you will be name the SHAME website i have ever come across !!!!!

7. misha, on May 17th, 2008 at 7:33 pm Said:

   By the way, SD monitor had accused me of using my “fake” email. It is NOT so since my email is real BUT I used a fake name, “DeafPigHead”. Nothing’s wrong with that since it is somewhat valid name though. I don’t need to use my real or nickname in that site. Pure and Simple. Period.

   Misha

8. flbigmouth, on May 17th, 2008 at 8:37 pm Said:

   Well, nothing change and nothing new…. those Deafmeek members are in their own shadow of cult. Glad I got to read some of this. I’m beginning to feel a whole lot better!

   Oh, by the way, Deafmeek~*&$%@!#)*&!@#($!@#@!!! Let me translate this… “Your business is not worth a LU~LU! Hope you enjoy whatever you desire to do, just stay out of my way!”

9. Bug, on May 18th, 2008 at 1:41 am Said:

   SD monitor should not accuse you unless she/he tests your email address. Don’t worry about your fake name because MM (Mountain Man) is not his real name. Almost everyone uses their fake name such as Bug, Tassielady, FLBigmouth, Dude, etc

10. JustJodi, on May 18th, 2008 at 6:02 am Said:

    SD/DM monitors are probably an exception of the rule, they probably do not have to OPEN UP and tell the site members who they really are,,
    I strongly believe that these cute little SCREEN NAMES, give all of us a sense of security, that was why they were “invented” to begin with…if a person refuses to give out their personal info,, that should be respected,, SD/DM sites are not GOVENMENT RUN sites,, but I do realize they expext people in that group to FROG MARCH or else.. sad sad
    Any way thats how I see it
    JJ

11. Jacey, on May 18th, 2008 at 10:46 am Said:

    Let me back up and explain things a big more clear…. I have been a member of TagDeaf since it started up, I have made some good friends, and I have had some fun too
    Things started to unravel when MOUNTAIN MAN came to TagDeaf, things just never were the same. Seems like there were arguements all the time and then MM went off and started up his own site, so he could accomodate Bity Gal..he then made BityGal one of his mods/monitors
    Bity started banning people left and right.. and other members of SeekDeaf stayed on Tag Deaf and made life hell for every one,, no it was not TagDeaf who had the BAD members it was seek deaf.. cos every time some one came in to TD from SD things got bad and people started to fight all the time
    Then SD was exposed for copyright infringement, they went off and created DM,., which just made things more akward for the remaining REAL TD members..which is why I am getting the heck out of TD, it is no longer a fun place to be Frau makes it very uncomfortable for every NON DM member in TD.. she makes sure she lets u know …and quite frankly, I am SICK AND TIRED AND FED UP WITH Frau and her buddies…

12. flbigmouth, on May 18th, 2008 at 8:05 pm Said:

    I agree with jacey 100 percent. At once, well several times, she had told some members that she was going to tell them about my life. She had even said that she will do everything she can do to ruin my reputation if I had continued bullying her or not leaving her alone. She had threaten me many times. I cannot be civil with her because she went behind my back in the first place calling me ‘bit**”. From that point on, I had sat back and watch her take single men away from single women and I have seen how she had those single men wrap about her pinky finger. Yes, she flirt with single men while she’s married. Yes, she had met single men and even invite them to her home, while she’s married. And yes, she showed her nude body in stickam.

    The fact is that she is married and cannot do what single women can do. Single women can flirt and date. As for her, she is married, she can’t and that is her biggest problem now.

    Well, since she had already made some remarks about me in Deadmeek, I think I have the right to say anything this time.

    I’m single. I can date. I can flirt. Because I’m single and I CAN DO THAT.

    And as for MM, I do not bow my knees before you. I do not need to listen to you. And I do not need to follow and to be obident to you. You are not my Lord, nor are you a friend. I am not a dangerous woman like you stated, You are so blind from all of this stuff that’s going on.. you should have stayed on the good side as you need to be as a christain by showing your christainaity. However, I don’t need to tell you what you need to do or how to do or whatever. Your life, you have it. And that is your damn problem, not mine. I’ve got mine and I’m happy with it.

    Yes, Jacey, Moutainmainman wanted to be the leader of deafies, but looks like he is one sour ones that I suggested you all to be aware of him. Don’t get me wrong, He is nice when he wants to be, but he don’t need to tell people what to do. He need to mind his own buiness and show some respect.

    It is so unfair how some members go back and fourth to TD and SD making war. I’m tired of this, too.
    However, I was told that I am no longer inTD since Frau had worked her way to frame me to ban me out of TD. Nice job, and well done Frau. I don’t give a flying LU LU about you any how. Oh, by the way, I”m still in TD…. Alex and I are working very close together on a case.

13. flbigmouth, on May 18th, 2008 at 8:05 pm Said:

    The first paragrah is referring to Frau not Jacey.. .sorry if I confused you.. flbigmouth

14. DM Monitor, on May 18th, 2008 at 11:02 pm Said:

    People,

    You are free to speak up your feelings about the issue of being banned but does it really help you in any way? There are many other websites you can look for and join. If I was banned, I would spew expletives then move on and find another site to socialize with other peers. This spat have been alive for several months, fueled by you continuing throwing skulls and bones. I wonder why?

    Does it will achieve anything? No. Did it work for you to bring you back? No. What will you do about it? Nothing. Oh, you want to say ##!#%!@#%!%%^@#, that’s fine but it won’t change anything whether you like it or not.

    I like to set the record straight. Frau doesn’t ban 100+, not really. We have four monitors plus two owners at SD/DM that screen incoming members daily and that means one of those six people have done the banning. If you want your account closed, please contact one of the six and we will be glad to close account for you. FYI, Bity is NOT one of the six now.

    Finally, Misha, thanks for clarifying about not revealing your identity when you spoke with Frau and I do same here on your website. It’s simple with respect.

15. Tassielady, on May 18th, 2008 at 11:24 pm Said:

    Mtdew dear you havent response to my question …. why was i banned ? Its a common curtesy to ask why and you havent got the slightest ball to give one.

    so who is in the wrong YOU !!!

    Get off your high horse and start acting like an adult for once and i want answers thankyou.

    You did skimming thru what i said did you ?? Im sure you did .. means you are one eye fool !!!

    Im still waiting for your answer !!!!

16. Beooyytcch from Hell, on May 18th, 2008 at 11:28 pm Said:

    One problem is that when they ban and still go after people and attack them by the mob!! It didn’t end it there. I see you(mods) still talk about those people and keep on banning them. What’s more, why keep inviting people over and hurt them. When they are banned and if they are talking about it. You guys go after them and beat the crap out of them. It is WRONG!! You hurt those people. it makes you are BAD people. It is like a trap for those innocent deaf people. Devil leading them into the Gates of HELL.

17. Misha, on May 18th, 2008 at 11:38 pm Said:

    Okay, MtDew,

    Since you stated that Frau and I had some conversation which were true, why can’t she come out here and answer this? Why can’t MountainMan come out here to answer to the ex-members? You can’t speak for them since you’re only the monitor which obviously is the lower of the administrator totem.

    Bring them over here…..let’s see what their answers are. Hmm?

    Misha

18. Dude, on May 18th, 2008 at 11:41 pm Said:

    I know it will go endless. Very well said.

19. Fookem, on May 19th, 2008 at 12:23 am Said:

    Wow, too much drama over there which I am glad that I am not one of those low-educated people.

20. Frau's comment in deafmeek, on May 19th, 2008 at 12:42 am Said:

    flbigmouth, on May 18th, 2008 at 8:05 pm Said: I agree with jacey 100 percent. At once, well several times, she had told some members that she was going to tell them about my life. She had even said that she will do everything she can do to ruin my reputation if I had continued bullying her or not leaving her alone. She had threaten me many times. I cannot be civil with her because she went behind my back in the first place calling me ‘bit**”. From that point on, I had sat back and watch her take single men away from single women and I have seen how she had those single men wrap about her pinky finger. Yes, she flirt with single men while she’s married. Yes, she had met single men and even invite them to her home, while she’s married. And yes, she showed her nude body in stickam. *** Yes I have a LOOOOOOT of single friends from ALL OVER THE WORLD- so deal with it, Bitch! If you cannot accept that I’m a FRIEND with some single friends for even YEARS, then you’re friggin’ dumb! You mixed up the names in that paragraph, Sheron! You’re not making sense. You abuse the public honor and respect in the deaf culture by destroying people’s reputations and LISTENING to your so-called friends’ gossips and BULLSHITS as usual… You have no honor, respect and decency toward the deaf culture. You LIED to your work for YEARS that you had a certificate before you got busted and forced to go to take up ASL class in 2005. I showed my nude body in Stickam? Ok you got a proof? You’re foaming some bullshit out of your mouth as usual, Sheron.

    The fact is that she is married and cannot do what single women can do. Single women can flirt and date. As for her, she is married, she can’t and that is her biggest problem now. *** GOOD GRIEF!!!! You’re so paranoid that I’d *steal* them from you? NOoooooooo! I am very protective of them as very dear friend and wouldn’t let you date them because you’re all sick in your head plus you’re better off whoring around with some carnival workers annually anyway.
    Well, since she had already made some remarks about me in Deadmeek, I think I have the right to say anything this time. ** You have asked for it. You CHOSE to listen some gossips and bullshits from fat holes and *decided* to get all jealous of Nadia, then Bity and then me. You’re just a dumb cunt after all
    I’m single. I can date. I can flirt. Because I’m single and I CAN DO THAT. Uh huh Go ahead to date some carnival workers instead of very nice and upstanding guys.
    And as for MM, I do not bow my knees before you. I do not need to listen to you. And I do not need to follow and to be obident to you. You are not my Lord, nor are you a friend. I am not a dangerous woman like you stated, You are so blind from all of this stuff that’s going on.. you should have stayed on the good side as you need to be as a christain by showing your christainaity. However, I don’t need to tell you what you need to do or how to do or whatever. Your life, you have it. And that is your damn problem, not mine. I’ve got mine and I’m happy with it. *** You were so infatuated with him until he saw the true color of yours when you went crazy and psycho-ish after DM. I don’t blame MM for avoiding you at all cost! GET LOST!*
    Yes, Jacey, Moutainmainman wanted to be the leader of deafies, but looks like he is one sour ones that I suggested you all to be aware of him. Don’t get me wrong, He is nice when he wants to be, but he don’t need to tell people what to do. He need to mind his own buiness and show some respect. ** He’s the leader of this site and he PAID for that, moron! If you don’t like it, go somewhere else instead!*
    It is so unfair how some members go back and fourth to XX and SD making war. *** TOUGH SHIT!!!  Both of sites ain’t YOURS and it’s either you get used to it or LEAVE!**** I’m tired of this, too.However, I was told that I am no longer inTD since Frau had worked her way to frame me to ban me out of TD. Nice job, and well done Frau. I don’t give a flying LU LU about you any how. Oh, by the way, I”m still in TD…. Alex and I are working very close together on a case. ** YOu broke the promise with him that you would NOT ever harrass me, even hint against me and taunt me as usual in XX and I DID NOT BREAK THE PROMISE TO HIM. How can you call it “framing”? Your accusations are so silly. GROW THE FUCK UP, ACT RIGHT, MOVE THE FUCK ON AND LEAVE THE FUCK OF US ALONE INSTEAD OF BEING SO OBSESSIVE OF ME AND OTHERS!!!**
    flbigmouth, on May 18th, 2008 at 8:05 pm Said: The first paragrah is referring to Frau not Jacey.. .sorry if I confused you.. flbigmouth ** Very obvious that you’re so OBSESSIVE of me, twat.**

21. Where's Frau??, on May 19th, 2008 at 12:50 am Said:

    Seem Frau is talking shit in deafmeek but won’t come in here and say her piece. That means she is GUILTY of what she is doing. She is very vicious person. READ her words. Wow, what a backstabbing woman she is. She can be very awful person to be around with. Who wants to be friends with someone who talks like that?

22. Tassielady, on May 19th, 2008 at 12:55 am Said:

    FRAU

    Wow impressive language you got there im so shocked that you are a mother of a beautiful boy to speak like that !!! Shame shame shame.

    *shaking head*

23. Bug, on May 19th, 2008 at 1:25 am Said:

    Gossip needn’t be false to be evil… there is a lot of truth that shouldn’t be passed around. Knowledge is power, if you know it about the right person.

    I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.

    -Bug

24. Bug, on May 19th, 2008 at 1:28 am Said:

    flbigmouth,

    I have a glass slipper. Is it yours?

    -Bug

25. DM Monitor, on May 19th, 2008 at 1:59 am Said:

    Does Alex of Tagdeaf give the reason for banning people? No. When the person is being banned, the system does not send out an email to the person’s personal email stating that he/she is banned for a reason. If the person is to be banned, we would have to send an email first before banning the account and that would give the person opportunity. Did Alex or any other owner do that? Tell me if they did.

    Tassie, I did not personally ban you, it has to be the one of the other five and I do not know the reason. I suppose that they may not feel comfortable with you based on the past experience. I know it may sounds bullshit to you and you would say “Oh, yeah, rightttttttttttt”. I cannot undo it and the only way you can do is move on and find fun elsewhere.

    Sometimes, banning people without reason is a necessity when it comes in maintaining control of a social networking website. Even banned people would object to this if a reason is required. Sometimes the life we live in does not have a reason for something when you are well known for something that you do.

    I’m only one from SD/DM that does go here and have a dialogue. Frau, MM, and others do not want a piece of this at all or have the desire to respond, mark my words. They know they would be pulled in here if they do come here and talk. They know they would be attacked and bashed on. That is not what they want to receive for what they have conducted what they believe is appropriate. They feel what they want to do and you don’t like that and you yell at them. What’s that? Whatever happened to respect in the world? They will not tolerate this kind of behavior at all. They will not waste their time trying to explain their position when you all do not have open ears to listen and refrain from throwing bricks at them.

    There’s a saying—”Treat the people the same way you want them to treat you”.

    You all probably will roll your eyes up and say, “Oh, please!”

    There’s a problem in almost every social networking website—–trying to keep everyone happy. Manipulators, blackmailers, conning people, and like always be there and every website have to deal with them. If we build a strong monitor pool, we would be able to keep this at minimum and foster peaceful environment as much as possible. That what we saw in TagDeaf and say to ourselves “we do not want that here in SD/DM”. The experience at Tagdeaf molded the group and decided on the approach they want to use when opening up a new social network website.

    Again, if you don’t like it, I’m sorry! Then SD/DM may not be the right website for you.

    Have a good week!

26. Proof of Evidences speak, on May 19th, 2008 at 2:23 am Said:

    And they are the one that came into the site and start attacking. Now they can’t take it when we fight back with proof and evidence. Remember they are the one who start the ball rolling. Once they think they can inflict harm and get away with murder. They better think twice. They inflict lot of harms to many and banning them. Then they decide to go after them to beat them up. That is a no-no. Something is wrong with the picture. Whose mind is screwy? Someone got a loose screw! It ain’t us.

27. JaguarXKE, on May 19th, 2008 at 11:23 am Said:

    Let me tell you what’s going on:

    I have gave warning to the owner of SD/DM about that person about few weeks before he opens the new site SD, I let him go and find out….

    One of SD monitor invited me to join in SD site. I posted messages and quizzes and polls. That person banned me for none sences situations, I was send emails in private in SD’s 3 Monitors and asking why she posted my nickname in that post? then that person email me and gave me harsh words which was unacceptable. Also I send an email to mtdewtaz for the same message, mtdewtaz didn’t even reply to me, screw him! No Buts! There are no exuses about it!

    MM can speak for himself because he is an Adult, Not you mtdewtaz.. You speak for yourself with your own comments.

    Likewise, I speak for myself with my own comments.

    Jacey and I left SD site on the same night. Since we left that site, the war comes up and more fighting between SD/DM/TD. I am not surprise things happen in SD/DM site, Now Bity is banned out of DM site. It is about time!

    Regards,
    JaguarXKE

28. misha, on May 19th, 2008 at 11:27 am Said:

    “Then SD/DM may not be the right website for you.”

    Excuse me….how do I know if it is right or not? Not that I wanted to be in your site because I have NO desire to be in your nor TagDeaf sites, but the point is I lasted 2 1/2 hours at your site. How in the hell do I know if it is right site or not?!? So obviously your staff already decided that for me, huh?

    About TagDeaf, I have no idea because I have never been there. No, I don’t have any interest in signing up there and your site as well. You obviously skimmed through my reasons and opinions in my part one. You need to read it all over again from the top to the bottom. I mean it.

    Misha

29. flbigmouth, on May 19th, 2008 at 11:39 am Said:

    Bug,

    I must have left it at Bug Kingdom Land….shall I return?

30. Fookem, on May 19th, 2008 at 12:30 pm Said:

    DM monitor, you stated, ‘There’s a saying—”Treat the people the same way you want them to treat you”.’

    Well, how come some members lasted a few hours at your site and got banned?

    Also, you stated, ‘We have four monitors plus two owners at SD/DM that screen incoming members daily and that means one of those six people have done the banning.’

    That’s mean there is six powerful people that can ban. It won’t success because there is too many chiefs. They need ONE chief and it will success.

    -Fookem

31. DM Monitor, on May 19th, 2008 at 2:50 pm Said:

    Jacey, we moved SD to DM due to web hosting issues, not a copyright infringement.

    Fookem, it is how DM is structured. I do respect your opinion on having one chief to run the site. You have three other men (Bug, Jimactor, other one) come and assist you to run the site and you may feel comfortable having four people doing the work on Fookem and Bug site. Sometimes having one person run the site with 10,000 members as in TagDeaf case is an overwhelming work but doable.

    Misha, if they banned you within 2 1/2 hours, then you’re right that they have decided for you that the site is not right for you. I agree with you. That’s how it goes there. *shrugs*

    Jaguar, they do not want to come here per their remarks to me so that’s it. Nothing we can do about it. *shrugs* Best you can do is walk away and do elsewhere.

    Have a great day!

32. Dude, on May 19th, 2008 at 2:54 pm Said:

    “if they banned you within 2 1/2 hours, then you’re right that they have decided for you that the site is not right for you.”

    doesn’t make sense.

33. Dude, on May 19th, 2008 at 2:58 pm Said:

    she was not looking forward it and it was her last minute notice. She is not TagDeaf Member as far as I know and you banned her out of SD. You are not making any sense. Obvious SD/DM are enjoy banning people out with and without reason. *SMH*

34. Dude, on May 19th, 2008 at 3:03 pm Said:

    EDIT:out with reason or without reason.

35. JaguarXKE, on May 19th, 2008 at 3:11 pm Said:

    DM Monitor,

    You wrote: Jaguar, they do not want to come here per their remarks to me so that’s it. Nothing we can do about it. *shrugs* Best you can do is walk away and do elsewhere.

    Wrong! You are getting away with it!!! There is no way to cover up!

    FYI: I am not going elsewhere or anywhere. *Shrugs* back to you! DUHIE!

    Regards,
    JaguarXKE

36. Banjo, on May 19th, 2008 at 3:37 pm Said:

    Anonymous #8, that would be me.

    It’s true. After watching Geo’s vlog on the copyright infringement committed by someone at SeekDeaf, I decided to sign up and browse. Within an hour, I was banned. I didn’t sign up at home, I was using someone’s computer and the IP on the computer got banned from their server. I was given a 404 page saying I didn’t have the permission to access their server.

    So when I got home, I decided to see if I could access. Guess what? The website came up just fine without a 404 page. Then the next day, I tried it on the computer that got banned, it still had the 404 page. So it turned out that they did ban the IP address on that computer.

    Pathetic. It’s really pathetic that they had to ban me. All I did was look at their website and see what the fuss is all about. Today, I still haven’t gotten a response to my e-mail.

    No need to explain yourself, I already have a good idea why you did it.

37. Seek Geo, on May 19th, 2008 at 4:54 pm Said:

    I find it funny that someone over at DM stating that they are feeling sorry for me cuz I’m with “wrong” crowd.

    I bet you anything that I’d prefer my crowd anytime over DM where they are full of hatred, gossip, back stabbing.

    For instance - Frau wrote:

    Frau wrote:

    Wow… she’s still a very OBSESSIVE crazy woman! Sure, I’d be more than happy to spill her secrets RIGHT HERE. She broke her agreement/promise to Alex that she’d leave me alone and not ever HINT about me. I left her alone, ingored her comments in the other site and reported her “taunting” me in the other site. I haven’t ever ever uttered a single word to her. Why? I do NOT want to.
    My spilling some secrets about the members- yes, I’m telling HOW some people ARE. They are not what I thought they were. I tell ‘em as it is. Up to them to spill the secrets or not.
    Her name is (full name - deleted), a terp for 15 years, a LICENSED terp since 2005, she lied to GA State Board of Special Education that she did have a license BEFORE she got busted in 2005. She got DUI- a terrible loser- and luckily no one else got killed.
    She would not ever ever leave me alone. She can try to fit in the deaf culture but still she’s a faker. She’s not really deaf or HOH as she claimed.
    She makes 22 thousand a year and STILL uses SSI. Go figure.
    As she keeps fucking with me, more informations I dig up. She’d better shut her hole up from now on.

    I removed the real name because I respect everyone’s privacy so Frau actually used the full name which is unprofessional.

    So, now you can see why I am so happy being with my wonderful crowd with no hatred going on, we accept everyone regardless.

    -SG

38. flbigmouth, on May 19th, 2008 at 5:16 pm Said:

    Thank you so much Seekgeo for the respect. I really appreciate you very much.

39. Bug, on May 20th, 2008 at 1:18 am Said:

    I find this interesting because I know a few commenters in here don’t tell the whole truth. A half truth is a whole lie. I don’t give a rat’s ass for the truth — all I’ve got is a nose, trust me. - Bug

40. Bug, on May 20th, 2008 at 1:23 am Said:

    Oh, well and come and get it, FLBigmouth. I think your step-sisters are annoying me.

41. BackAgain?, on May 20th, 2008 at 1:42 pm Said:

    A few SeekDeaf/DeafMeeker (including Mountainman, MtDew and Duro_Dragon) re-joined TagDeaf site last night. You came! Cannot satisfy enough on your DeafMeek site? or still addict or fell in love on Tagdeaf site? Interesting!

    Watch out for TD private profiles - VamWolf and RedFerrari (and maybe more? ) New first time TD user usually don’t know how to turn their profile private so I assume, it is their second or multiple screen names for sure!

    Sillygirl - Hello Bitygal79

42. flbigmouth, on May 20th, 2008 at 4:16 pm Said:

    Interesting, Thanks for sharing, however, I’ve moved on.

43. flbigmouth, on May 20th, 2008 at 4:21 pm Said:

    My step sisters are very annoying! I’ll meet you in the evening on the Bug Kingdom Land. I’m on my way….

44. Dude, on May 27th, 2008 at 5:45 pm Said:

    PAGalz is the newest drama queen on tagdeaf today

    I was telling members what I read from Admin’s email regarding to upgrade. Tagdeaf have 3 categories, General, Relationship and sugg/feedback. I posted in General category to let members know about the new Tagdeaf upgrade. I suddenly knew the announce is not for General tab so I deleted and it plan to post in Feedback category but I accidentally post in relationship category so I deleted it again and re-posted in feedback. On my second thought, it would be nice for tagdeaf to get surprise of new looks in Tagdeaf so I deleted it to let others see a new looks in a few days. Few minutes later PAGalz made a ugly topic for me. She thought I was playing games for some members which it was not. They made a big understood and that is how PAGalz turned herself a ugly topic. I explained to her about TagDeaf New Upgrade and she never buy my stories. She never move on, I told one of TD member if they see my deleted topic, they have to move on to read the next new thread but PAGalz jumped and attacked me for no reason. I think she want a ugly surprise from TD? RME but I want to give them a nice surprise to them how nice Tagdeaf will be. Look at PAGalz made a mess topic. She should not have posted it at first place. Now more people involved. She is real wacko lady on TagDeaf as she is the original topic creator.

    Take a look at
    http://www.tagdeaf.com/forum/view_topic/13123/to_show_snapshot_/

    I suggested you to check it out ASAP before PAGalz changed her mind and delete the topic.

    She is the one of newest awful member in history. I feel sorry for her that she got involved with us.

    Regard,
    Dude

45. Dude, on May 29th, 2008 at 4:54 pm Said:

    Message for Frau_in_va

    Frau,

    I saw you posted comment for me that I made topic for Sunnie few days ago. I couldn’t post it right away as TagDeaf was down for new server. You asked me that I should email to Sunnie instead posting topic on Tagdeaf. Well, I must to say that I disagreed your opinion. I made the topic to the public so I wanted everybody to see what I apologized to Sunnie and she accepted my apologized. That is good news.

    However If I emailed to Sunnie without showing it on Tagdeaf forum. You or others might thinks or rumors to others (via your other site forum, IM, email, VP or in a person) claim that I never apologized to Sunnie. That is why I wanted everybody to see my topic very clearly. It is like extra protection for me than you running around and tells others like “GUESS WHAT! Dude never apologized to Sunnie!, How stupid Dude is!!!” and things will get worst because you guys will get wrong information and will never see my personal email to Sunnie so I decided to post on topic instead.

    There is no need to copy this and tell others via email, IM or post forum at one of your other site. There is someone I know who is member at your other site (even if it is moderators or staffs (I know it is not you but it is “someone” else). I would not bothering to say who. If you are asking other staffs or moderator to find out if Dude is your friend with them. They might pretend to you that “Dude is not my friend”, etc. Everybody have done that all the time. It is their personal confidential. If you remove one of moderators or staffs by mistake and they complain to you then you might get your moderator/staff disabled. Well, Sorry, I cannot help you as you remove or yell at the wrong person and you made yourself foolish.

    If I happen got the information what you have told others (via IM, Email, your other site forum or VP) and I am not going to say like ” Too late! I got your information” I am not that kind of type person to tell you. All information will be strictly confidential. It’s going to be UNSEEN information anywhere on TD site as I am not the owner so I am going once to say this and you will need to remember in the future. It is your choice to rumor or not so keep this in your mind.

    By the way if TagDeaf reset the server and lost all user screen names and topics. That is cool with me but I am not going to create new “dude” again. It will be something else. If you see “dude” on TD then it would be probably someone else and if you make fun to Dude as wrong person, you will end up complain by someone. I cannot help you either. Take care.

46. gs_goddragon, on June 7th, 2008 at 7:00 am Said:

    Hi, I’m gs_goddragon from Tagdeaf for two years but I have’nt visited seekdeaf until I saw it on website but it changed to deafmeek.com later. I thought I would like to share with you my issue that might be similar experience to some of you. Two week ago I had my problem experience with DeafMeek.com once because I registered my new username and password to enter there for first time and had a look around there for a two minutes before I was banned quickly for no reason so I was surprised. I tried to enter that DM again twice so the forbidden page blocked me from enter there. I don’t know him well but I just met him at Tagdeaf before later I heard that he was banned for bashing his enemies for some reasons. I felt MM’s website that tracked and blocked my ip address. could it be possibly? but just a feeling. I also I emailed to MM who is admin that own his Deafmeek twice about why I’m not allowed to enter his website for meeting new friends but he didn’t relay my question. My feeling was maybe he rejected me and keep his members of DM who know him very well. It also made me unwelcome there because I think his website seem something wrong and dirty business that hurt people who were banned for no reasons so it lacks respect, responsibility and honest. I would recommend everyone not to register DM so It’s not right website so it is my instinct that tell me something terrible about DM but just be careful and watch your back. I just hand off and don’t involve anything there. Thanks for let me sharing my comments with you everyone.

    Cheers.

47. Dude, on June 7th, 2008 at 1:43 pm Said:

    Hey gs_goddragon,

    That is okay. It is still nothing new with that site. MM is going to lose lot of users anyway and someday he will shut down his site after more and more people complaint to MM for banning people for no reason. His site is very famous banning site.

48. gs_goddragon, on June 7th, 2008 at 4:48 pm Said:

    Hi Dude,

    I don’t know that MM’s website is famous banning site. it’s not like Tagdeaf. I agree with you dude, It is really nothing anything exciting people so that is his problem. One day he will fail himself so people will leave his site for good reason.

    Thanks

49. Dude, on June 7th, 2008 at 4:54 pm Said:

    Yes, that is Mountainman own that site. He was also known as Mountainman on TD last year. By the way Alex (TD owner) is also member there too.

50. A constant Observer, on June 7th, 2008 at 7:33 pm Said:

    If Alex is a member of MEEKDEAD, then who are the TD member going to trust? I know after observing the new upgrade in Tag Deaf, all the MM /MD cult followers swarmed into Tag Deaf,
    Mountain Man the owner of MEEK DEAD SENT A LONG E MAIL to be posted on Tag Deaf,, mocking certain members,, and the person that posted the MEMO from MOUNTAIN MAN was FRAU AKA FRAUD..
    Why does FRAUD feel it is necessaqry for Mountain Man to post a MEMO to TD,, he is not even a member of TD ( or so he and FRAUD claim)
    Also I have been watching people come in TD whining because WHAT A WONDERFUL GUY MOUNTAIN MAN IS,, AND HOW THEY WISH HE WOULD COME BACK TO TAG DEAF,, OH WHAT A POPULAR GUY HE IS,, OH HOW WONDERFUL AND OH HOW HANDSOME oh oh this and that,, my gosh, the way they carry on you would think he walks on water,, he has his own fucking site why would he want to go back on TD unless to try to take control of TD as well ?And if these people are so obsessed by this joke of a man then why the hell do they not stay in MEEK DEAD and sit at his feet ?
    Any way I just wanted to share what i observed as a lurker,, I do hope Alex reads some of the E MAILS that his loyal TD members have been sending him , and maybe wakes up a bit and actually does something about these cyber bullies who seem to laugh at every member of TD and know ALEX will not do any thing to them,, just what is it they have on Alex?
    I could go on an on but what point ? but feel good to share feeling about these things.

51. Another Observer, on June 8th, 2008 at 6:33 pm Said:

    MM hides behind the shadows of the ladies,he s the weakest link,calls himself a true christain with a personality of a demented maniac.He s just a guy who is in love with his own ego,but he s just as sneaky as the devil ’s serpent, lurks in td ,tells others what to write or say. MM cannot handle his own affairs and he uses others to fight off his own enemies. MM uses alias screen names to impose another person because he has the power of hiding his own ip address and the power of searching other ’s ip addresses.Some sort of sneaky christain and I do not know how his church members accept him for his evilness.How shame to have this person trying to destroy friendships of others.

52. Dude, on June 8th, 2008 at 6:47 pm Said:

    Very True!

53. Lurking in TD, on June 9th, 2008 at 5:18 am Said:

    OK Tag Deaf upgrade is now a week old, already the arguments have broke out, name calling, manipulative behavior, making demands on people with names they do not recognize, it is almost like they are expecting a religious testimony, confessing who they are.
    I saw in one FORUM, a person called DEAF AMERICAN,, went as far as calling a woman a fat elephant and a communist, Alex the admin. quickly nipped that in the bud. But that did not stop there,people kept adding more and more negative comments. I also e mailed Alex and said what a shame that your newly upgraded site has been muddied with such negativity,I have also noticed some one called FRAU DEMENTED BUNNY is trying to take over tag deaf and closely followed by PAGALZ and some one called DURO DRAGON,, Makes one wonder whats wrong with MEEK DEAD,,can’t they post there and leave Tag Deaf alone, since that is where their LORD AND MASTER Mountain Man is at.
    Alex has tried so hard to run Tag Deaf alone, and I really would love to see him set it up with several mods, who can keep things under control for him , we all have lives outside the box.
    Well I have said my piece.
    I do wish ALEX well with his NEW and improved TD.. but I do hope he kicks some serious butt as well..

54. private eye, on June 10th, 2008 at 6:54 pm Said:

    some one sent this to me..seems that Mountain Man’s KINGDOM is crumbling.
    this is what was poste in meek deafs=

    POSTED BY: MountainMan on 06/10/08 @ 02:39 pm
    > [
    >
    >
    >
    > How often do you visit?  DEAFMEEK or TagAlex?  I thought
    it was very interesting to learn few& nbsp;DEAFMEEK members are
    posting more new topics (blog/forum)  at TagAlex.  That is
    no problem.  You can visit any site you want to.  Now, I
    can see DEAFMEEK blog/forum are quiet now.   Please
    let me know if there is something wrong with this
    site.  The new feature will have to put on hold for now because
    I’m trying to figure out what went wrong.
    > I told Frau if they spend more time at TagAlex, that is fine with
    me and I may consider to close my site because  I dont see
    why we have two deaf social network sites.  She said, no, you
    don’t have to close your site, once you open it, you stick with it.
    > Please share your feedback and opinion.
    > Thanks,
    > MM

    He is right about one thing, his loyal fans are spending hours and hours posting many many blogs and forums, and spending many hours FIGHTING with every member. So much for them being MEEK ***scoffs**

55. misha, on June 22nd, 2008 at 1:06 pm Said:

    DM and TD member,

    You need to knock it off, please. This is not the battleground for everyone to fight over those silly networks. Enough is Enough.

    I’ll remove some of your comments with insults and cuss words because you are very disrespectful toward other people.

    If this continues, I’ll close the comments and probably put you on my blacklist to prevent you from coming here to start the trouble.

    Some of you need to grow up, especially you, DM and TD member.

    Misha

56. Ms. OutdoorsLover (MOL), on June 29th, 2008 at 2:30 am Said:

    I have experienced posting on message boards/ forums in several sites and can say that I never experienced such negativity, bitterness and living in the past in the hearing sites as I do in the deaf sites. In deaf sites, many don’t know how to state an opinion nicely without subtle digs or even obvious insults toward one another. There is a total lack of disrespect many times over in a deaf site that would get a person banned in an instant in a hearing site. Even this blog creates a divide when trying to cover an issue. It’s continuing an issue that needs to be moved on from.

    Just from the deaf sites I’m in I see several things wrong:

    Conflict of interest: Why are administrators/moderators from site A in site B? Why is it known in the sites they are administrators/moderators of that site or in another site? Moderators are supposed to be unnamed people. Why are people in site A advertising their administrator/ moderator role in site B? Why is site A people bringing stuff up from site B? Why is stuff be talked about outside of the site by the administrators/moderators to their friends?

    Favoritism: The rules should be the same for all regardless if one is friends with an administrator/moderator. An administrator/moderator has a tougher role in remaining unbiased and neutral. In other words, moderator/administrator’s friends don’t get preferred ‘special’ treatment that excuses their bad behavior or rule breaking. Once people see this, respect is lost from the people of your site.

    False Advertisement: Why advertise your site as open to all or even invite all to join when in reality your site only allows in a selected group of people? Membership should issue through one on one which is done by friend invite only. This means that friend A sends personal invitations addressed to friend B and C from their email list and not their entire email list of 20 friends.

    Staged drama: It has happened again and again because of this conflict of interest. Members from one site are going into the competing site to cause trouble/drama. Pick a site and become loyal to one site. Stop hiding under another screen name to cause this trouble/drama. Stop using a second, third or fourth screen name to break rules.

    The past: I’m constantly hearing ‘Move on!’ yet when I bring it to their attention that I wasn’t around for ‘the past’ I’m told to butt out as it don’t concern me. Why bring ‘the past’ to my attention by posting it again and again? Is posting it again and again defeating the purpose of moving on?

    Professionalism: This is sorely lacking in deaf sites. When an administrator/moderator posts real life names of individuals and their personal real life history, they step over the line by becoming unprofessional and biased. Administrator/moderator is held to a higher standard than an average member. IP addresses are not to be given under any circumstances to individuals or shared between sites. Rebuttal is not okay from an administrator on the message boards/forums. Administrator/moderator is not suppose to give advice about personal affairs nor get involved in gossips or dramas. It is okay for an administrator /moderator to advise two people not to speak to each and to avoid each other on the message boards/forums so another flare up doesn’t occur.

    Ranting/venting: Deaf people are inexperience on how to do this properly and respectful on the message boards/ forums. It is allowed in many hearing sites but people need to be forewarned with such sentences… “I need to get this off my chest. What do you think?” and ending with “Thank you for listening”. It can’t be accusing, swearing or insulting. When describing what has you upset, names of people, site names, and any other hints to the origin that take away from the ranting/venting need to be removed.

    Thank you.. MOL

57. CommanderCowpuppy, on June 29th, 2008 at 3:04 pm Said:

    the Deafmeekers push frau to the front and inspire the war to go on…..frau refused peace effort so she can feel powerful. shack made effort to end that little war…wicih is the bottom line……never peace until frau quits being a powerseeker playing both sides. All the little meekers who push her to continue. hope ya all get banned. frau is Alex’s favorite . playing both sides….an administrator from SD (frau) is the favorite at TD, inciting the TD/SD war to continue…..go figure…..alex wants peace there but allows this kind of garbage….I don’t expect any kind of professionalism from either site. not while play favorites.

58. rdasilvari, on June 29th, 2008 at 9:19 pm Said:

    yes, correct. And very astute observations.

59. flbigmouth aka ASL~SHACK, on July 4th, 2008 at 9:15 am Said:

    Since I”ve been banned from TD, I still hear from frends online telling me what was going on in TD. I know I was not as bad to deserve to be banned, though, the battle kept going. It has nothing to do with me in the first place. TD expected to become peace while I’m banned, it never happened. I know for FACT that FRAU (FROG FACE) has more than 6 screen names. Bity and others as well. I’m just glad to be banned from TD because I find it just a “mad” website. Well, those who laughed at me when I got banned don’t bother me much at all. FROG can run as along as she likes. She shows herself as a bad reputators that has no respect of herself, nor to her only autism child, to her past husbands and present husband. She shows her reputation so low that she is the DRAMA FROG QUEEN from a can of worms. Nothing new and I bet, TD will not change. Those members who are negative and always rally up in putting deafies down cannot admitt he and she is the Bully. Like I said, it is just a MAD site.

60. flbigmouth aka ASL~SHACK, on July 10th, 2008 at 3:18 pm Said:

    May God bless her online, internet friends from saving her marriage. It’s just awesome how a true friends can saved someone’s marriage from ‘internet’. (whoopie!)

61. Spelchek, on July 12th, 2008 at 3:22 pm Said:

    “Sometimes, banning people without reason is a necessity when it comes in maintaining control of a social networking website.”
    “Misha, if they banned you within 2 1/2 hours, then you’re right that they have decided for you that the site is not right for you…..That’s how it goes there.”
    I think these words, coming from a moderator, speak for themselves. These types of rules are what makes a private club, or a clique, not a social website. Social with who? Banning people without cause, without even knowing them? Or who they are? Members are culled from the Deaf community, but must adhere to strict predetermined mindsets? I would be nuttier than Aunt Bee’s brownies to kowtow to this agenda! Let them have their little Heaven on http://WWW. I am basically done with these social websites. Too many people with nothing better to do than act as Gestapo to protect their opinions and those they consider friends. I have humor and try to get along. Not acceptable. Gotta choose sides and fight. Not interested. If I wanted to fight, I would have joined the Army.

62. gs_goddragon, on July 16th, 2008 at 8:57 pm Said:

    Guess what, I’m true member of Tagdeaf who asked my two questions on my poll about Tagdeaf and Deafmeek. I waited for two month and half ( May to July 2008 ) to see how many people vote TD or DM on my poll so I compared which one is better. I have my proof answer to show you. It is clear that people have right reason to choose good and better deaf social network site so TD is winner.

    Take a look at:

    Tagdeaf is 73% and Deafmeek is 27% ( Which deaf site is better for you? )
    http://image24.webshots.com/665/9/80/94/2972980940095002833LTyTPY_fs.jpg
    2972980940095002833LTyTPY_fs.jpg (JPEG Image, 2040×2040 pixels) - Scaled (36%)

    Tagdeaf is 40% and Deafmeek is 60% ( Which one is most famous banning site ? )
    http://image24.webshots.com/665/9/80/94/2972980940095002833LTyTPY_fs.jpg
    2972980940095002833LTyTPY_fs.jpg (JPEG Image, 2040×2040 pixels) - Scaled (36%)

    My information for Admin Mountain Man ( MM )at DM, shame on MM for banning people for no reasons so thing doesn’t change anything better to success his site. Shame on MM and his DM members are Duro Dragon, Frau, and Snowleaf being cyberbully and backstabber against TD members and me too for no reasons so they caused war between TD and DM. That is not acceptance ! Clean up their whole problems !

    I have my reason to express my feelings with two proof images to show truth about that at this Misha’s blog. I want to thank to my TD friend, Dude, SGG, and Sunnies for supporting me through difficult experience at both of conflict between TD and DM.

63. gs_goddragon, on July 16th, 2008 at 9:04 pm Said:

    Hi, I’m sorry these are two links are not working so I’m positive that I have proof of two image about two poll of TD in my computer at home.

64. gs_goddragon, on July 17th, 2008 at 7:39 am Said:

    I tried to fix two links so I hope they let you open them to see evidence of what I ask my two questions on my poll from Tagdeaf ( TD ).

    Which deaf site is better for you?
    TD is 73% and DM is 27%
    http://img170.imageshack.us/img170/8275/gilbertpollvote01vl9.jpg

    Which one is famous banning site?
    TD is 40% and DM is 60%
    http://img300.imageshack.us/img300/8215/gilbertpollvote03bz6.jpg

65. ASK~SHACK, on July 17th, 2008 at 11:38 am Said:

    gs_goddragon,

    Yes! It is true what you showed there. You showed the PROOF, evidence with the vote.

    Since Deafmeek (Deadmeek) has changed in his (MM) site, he is welcoming all newcomers to join his site.

    I was able to see Deadmeek’s site. It requested to join member. There is no way on earth will I join there. After all the trouble when banning members for no reason, why should I join again? Mountainman, the admin. of Deafmeek, needs to apologize to many members for banning newcomers so quick and he did not give any reason why newcomer members banned.

    Best to stay out of it. I do not worship MM in demanding few people to make an apology to him. He should, on his side, apologize those members who were banned for no reason.

    As far as Frau (frogface), Duro_Dragon, PAG, ML, Bity, PCG, Sweetmeg and few others are just gang. If any of you readers, see those names listed, do not trust them. Do not tell a soul about your personal life, nor should you give them your real name. Stay away from those people.

    Thanks for sharing your Poll between TD and Deadmeek.

66. gs_goddragon, on July 17th, 2008 at 10:12 pm Said:

    Hi ASK~SHACK,

    You’re welcome. I believe that Deafmeek (Deadmeek) is just false advertisement but Tagdeaf is not that. TD is fine and no problem too. I’ll update to add other proof images with my informations on links here.

67. gs_goddragon, on July 18th, 2008 at 9:38 pm Said:

    I changed my mind to not add other evidence image with links here aren’t important about DM and TD members in wars so I deleted them and let them go. Revenge don’t solve anything better to prove evidence from the past. My opinion is banning people for no reason is not answer cuz it lead to war between DM and TD site. The best answer is members are unity, equal friendship in peace that lead to success between TD and DM site. You see what I show the simple proof of poll vote about which is better deaf social network here.

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