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	<title>Comments on: Stuck in a Moment We Can&#8217;t Get Out Of?</title>
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	<description>Thoughts, ideas, and narratives from a deaf firefighter</description>
	<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: neilmcd</title>
		<link>http://blog.deafread.com/deaffirefighter/2008/01/15/stuck-in-a-moment-we-cant-get-out-of/#comment-20907</link>
		<dc:creator>neilmcd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:04:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kim, the shuffle feature basically makes your ipod the DJ.  In other words, it takes all the songs you have on it and mixes them up.   You probably could listen to the ipod if you like music.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kim, the shuffle feature basically makes your ipod the DJ.  In other words, it takes all the songs you have on it and mixes them up.   You probably could listen to the ipod if you like music.</p>
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		<title>By: kim</title>
		<link>http://blog.deafread.com/deaffirefighter/2008/01/15/stuck-in-a-moment-we-cant-get-out-of/#comment-20906</link>
		<dc:creator>kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 23:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>GREAT blog!!  I'm going to back up a moment and ask a really stuuuupid question.  Shuffle feature??  I am old and not up on iPOD gadgetry.  You can listen to music with this?  I wonder . . .could I??  Interesting. . . :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>GREAT blog!!  I&#8217;m going to back up a moment and ask a really stuuuupid question.  Shuffle feature??  I am old and not up on iPOD gadgetry.  You can listen to music with this?  I wonder . . .could I??  Interesting. . . <img src='http://blog.deafread.com/deaffirefighter/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: todos la vie</title>
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		<dc:creator>todos la vie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 20:58:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey,

Interesting you were paralleling the song with how you felt about the deaf community.  Maybe that's why we need to play racquetball.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey,</p>
<p>Interesting you were paralleling the song with how you felt about the deaf community.  Maybe that&#8217;s why we need to play racquetball.  <img src='http://blog.deafread.com/deaffirefighter/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Deaf Mom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deaf Mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 20:37:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Neil, I have to applaud you for that wonderful reply you gave to the firefighters on that forum.  I bet a lot of them learned a thing or two and perhaps several will change their paradigm of what a deaf/hard of hearing firefighter can do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Neil, I have to applaud you for that wonderful reply you gave to the firefighters on that forum.  I bet a lot of them learned a thing or two and perhaps several will change their paradigm of what a deaf/hard of hearing firefighter can do.</p>
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		<title>By: Raining in the Northwest</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raining in the Northwest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 18:23:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's exactly what I've been preaching.  Stop whining and blaming, and instead, assert yourselves and approach these situations with dignity and respect.  A diplomatic approach. 

It's not easy to do when one is stuck.  The demise of one's existence is easy to blame, but perhaps then it's the individual's choices that are to be faulted? Many people do not like to be accountable for themselves.  

And yes, many people do obsess about the past.  Relive the good ol' glory days.  Face it, it's long past.  

One of the interesting things I learned recently is a concept called "Futuring".  Look into the future and try to see what things will be like then.  Try to anticipate it.  Adapt the things you do now in anticipation of the future.  Keep your sights on the future.  Don't look back or you'll turn into a pillar of salt. Perhaps then you'll have different ideas. 

BF</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s exactly what I&#8217;ve been preaching.  Stop whining and blaming, and instead, assert yourselves and approach these situations with dignity and respect.  A diplomatic approach. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s not easy to do when one is stuck.  The demise of one&#8217;s existence is easy to blame, but perhaps then it&#8217;s the individual&#8217;s choices that are to be faulted? Many people do not like to be accountable for themselves.  </p>
<p>And yes, many people do obsess about the past.  Relive the good ol&#8217; glory days.  Face it, it&#8217;s long past.  </p>
<p>One of the interesting things I learned recently is a concept called &#8220;Futuring&#8221;.  Look into the future and try to see what things will be like then.  Try to anticipate it.  Adapt the things you do now in anticipation of the future.  Keep your sights on the future.  Don&#8217;t look back or you&#8217;ll turn into a pillar of salt. Perhaps then you&#8217;ll have different ideas. </p>
<p>BF</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 17:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Neil. :) That's been our goal all along - to maintain a positive, assertive approach without burning bridges, all while standing up for our current and future Deaf children in California.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Neil. <img src='http://blog.deafread.com/deaffirefighter/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> That&#8217;s been our goal all along - to maintain a positive, assertive approach without burning bridges, all while standing up for our current and future Deaf children in California.</p>
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